I had sex before marriage?

September 30th, 2017

I’m a Muslim girl. The worst one apparently, and I’ve had sex before marriage, including anal. I am so sorry for doing it, and I know I can’t change it back. But I regret it so much, I started praying 5 times a day, like I should. I’m also trying to learn to read to Koran. And I’m saving up money to go to Hadj and ask for forgiveness there. I’m so terrified I’ll burn in hell forever. I want to go to heaven to meet out lovely prophet (saw). But I’m afraid I messed it up. I’m truly so sorry, I regret it so much, and I ask Almighty Allah to forgive me, every day. But I’m afraid he won’t, even though he is the most forgiving. I can’t think straight anymore, and I cry about it every time I think about it. I’m trying to become a better Muslim. But what if that’s not enough. Another bad thing about me, is that I have tattoos. I heard they’re makruh, instead of haram. So I thought it would be okay. (My younger sister’s friend’s father is Imam, and he said it’s Makruh. His son (my sister’s friend), is going to get one on his back). Can someone please help me out? I am truly sorry for what I have done. And I would do anything to make it up with Allah

Should i get involved with a married women?

July 8th, 2011

I met this married women at a bar recently and she started hitting on me. She was hot and i started flirting right back. I bought her some drinks and things were going good until i realized a wedding ring on her finger. She told me her husband is in Iraq and that he doesn’t care about her. She told me she hasn’t had sex in over a year and she is so horny. I told her i don’t know if she would get a divorce. She gave me her number and told me to think about it. Should i get involved?

Big family events like weddings can create conflict and hurt feelings

July 8th, 2011

Big family events like weddings can create conflict and hurt feelings
Feeling left out of your daughter’s wedding planning? Talking with your daughter will lead to a deeper understanding for both of you and will likely lead to a way of being together in planning for her wedding that feels good to you.

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♥ Which Indian wedding dresses look sexy and classy (Pics) ♥?

July 8th, 2011

My wedding is supposed to last 3 days. I already have a traditional red wedding dress for the actual wedding ceremony. I still need to find dresses for the bride showing, two prewedding parties and the reception. Which dresses do you like the best? 🙂

1. http://www.seasonsindia.com/showcase/images/009.jpg

2. http://www.seasonsindia.com/showcase/images/010.jpg

3. http://www.seasonsindia.com/showcase/images/013.jpg

4. http://www.seasonsindia.com/showcase/images/015.jpg

5. http://www.seasonsindia.com/showcase/images/023.jpg

Thanx in advance!! 🙂
Thanks for your answers everyone! The midriff isn’t considered “sexy” in India.. Its just like your arms or legs.. All sarees reveal the stomach area. Its not inappropriate.. Even older women, like my mother and my grandma, wear sarees.

Is it possible to refrain from swapping rings in the wedding ceremony and doing it later?

July 8th, 2011

My brother is getting married, in the Presbyterian church, sooner than expected because his fiance’s father is sick. We are having a very small wedding with just immediate family. Four months from then, we will have a full wedding weekend for all friends and family. Is it possible to hold off on the rings at the first wedding and do a ring ceremony at the second one?

Pea Ridge Methodist church hosting camp

July 8th, 2011

Pea Ridge Methodist church hosting camp
HUNTINGTON — Pea Ridge United Methodist Preschool is offering a week-long summer camp for children 2 years through second grade.

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what picture should i use for my visual analysis paper.?

July 8th, 2011

anything… i have to be able to find background information on it… i need links and ideas… please help its due in less than 24 hrs. ((i have a baby and im planning my wedding. ive been so busy or it would have been done 3 days ago.))

♥ Which Indian wedding dresses look sexy and classy (Pics) ♥?

July 8th, 2011

My wedding is supposed to last 3 days. I already have a traditional red wedding dress for the actual wedding ceremony. I still need to find dresses for the bride showing, two prewedding parties and the reception. Which dresses do you like the best? 🙂

1. http://www.seasonsindia.com/showcase/images/009.jpg

2. http://www.seasonsindia.com/showcase/images/010.jpg

3. http://www.seasonsindia.com/showcase/images/013.jpg

4. http://www.seasonsindia.com/showcase/images/015.jpg

5. http://www.seasonsindia.com/showcase/images/023.jpg

Thanx in advance!! 🙂

My family is not being very supportive of us having the wedding next year…?

July 8th, 2011

Long story, I’d like it if you read it and gave my advice or opinions you have. Please avoid being rude or abusive because I am quite hurt and upset, but Im open to hearing arguments from both sides.

I have been engaged for about a year and a half, and for a lot of personal reasons we had to postpone our wedding almost as soon as we got engaged. I told my parents that we wouldnt be getting married straight away, and they were quite happy (me being 19 and us being in financial strife).

My fiance has a lot of debt that he accumulated before we met, which he was paying off because he ran a very successful small business. With the recession he had to close that business and we lost a lot of money and missed a lot of payments, he joined the army and took a big pay cut. We have entered into a debt agreement through the army, which means we have arranged an interest free consolodation payment plan, basically. We can pay it off quicker if we want, but it wont save us any money and it wont get it off his record any faster (it stays on for a period of time after the start date, not the end date). So basically, we’ve come up with a solution that isnt perfect but allows us to get on with our lives and start doing the things we want (get married, save up for a second car etc). Our life has started to settle down now because the Australian army has supplied us with a house and a steady income, I have found a good job and things are really getting back to normal and are a lot less stressful.

So we decideed that now we can start planning our wedding again. We told his family, who were quite happy despite usually not really caring much about this sort of thing. His parents have agreed to give us $5-10k towards the wedding. My parents have previously told us that they will give $10k because that is how much my sister got.

When I told my family, who I am very close to and are usually supportive and loving, they (my parents and the sister who actually replied) they got angry and started going on about how if we can afford a wedding we can afford to pay off our debts. My sister (who got $10k from my parents) said “I bet you’re expecting a hand out from mum and dad to pay for this.” Even though she paid for very little for her own wedding.

My problem is, we will be paying for some of this wedding, but what our families will be contributing will cover the vast majority of it. We arent in a great spot, but we arent asking for more than what they gave our siblings. While I understand they are worried about us, they wont listen when we say that we are ok.

My father said that we are starting out life in a bad way. I dont see how it is any different from now, we have been living together for 2 years and are registered as a de facto couple (recognised in australia as basically the same as married, with all the same legal rights and obligations, just without a marriage certificate). We have already started our life together. But we are eager to be able to call other “husband” and “wife”. I know they dont disapprove of my fiance, because they have told me many times that they do approve of him and like him. My father said “i thuoght you were going to wait and have a long engagement” i told him that 3 years is a long engagement, and that we got engaged to get married. he said engagement is making a commitment to each other, but i dont believe that it is, i think its stating an intention of an impending marriage!

I dont know what to say to my parents. Im worried they are going to refuse to contribute, which would hurt me because they contributed to my sisters wedding.

Sex with my lecturer?

July 8th, 2011

So i kinda have a crush on my lecturer. She’s about 35-40, blonde blue eyes and just hot. She’s the tall skinny type. Her ass jiggles when she walks and she has a great pair of hips which look really accomodating. I always stare at her during lectures and she’s the only reason i got up this morning. I was looking at her as her stomach was exposed and she swa me and puller her top down. When i came in she was bent over and i could see her breats. They looked so soft and she was wearing a ralph lauren top. Should i ask her to help me with the exams and see if we could have sex over the summer when school finishes? I think she’s married coz i saw a ring on her wedding finger but i’m not sure if it was a wedding ring or not.