After 3 years, Just before the wedding.. Am Cracking ! Help Please?

June 28th, 2011

Me and my fiance are getting married in a couple of months, About loosing the spark in our relationship ! YES !! We already lost it, frankly talking i lost it because am not emotionally satisfied with him, i KNOW he loves me , but he doesn’t show it neither physically or by words. We talked about that a million of times, and after he just makes a lame gesture which i really feel its just an act to please me, but i really DON’T HAVE any feelings, (intimacy).. I tried to leave him more than a dozen of times but he doesnt want to let me go, I am a high maintanence personality and i need a special treatment and he can handle me on my worst moods, but i need passion, affection, love, spark ! i really NEED that ! He never hold my hand or hugs em in public, thou i always do and start by breaking the physical wall, sometimes i feel he isn’t interested in having sex either ! i dunno whats wrong. i don’t want turn to having an affair ! Thought many times of going to a shrink, or reading online how to be emotionally cold just to cope up with him. He’s wonderful in everything else, he’s easy going, open minded, handles me at my worst, i see him as an amazing future husband and father. but i feel that we are married for 10 years or so . At the beginning of the relation ship , the spark and the physical attraction eneded up after 3 or 4 months. i tried pulling back, not to call him or text him, but he always does like more than 6 times daily but i feel that he does so , not out of that he misses me but out of he;s used to talking to me ! Am really puzzeled and i really need help ! PLEASE, Serious answers ! What should i do ?

One Response to “After 3 years, Just before the wedding.. Am Cracking ! Help Please?”

  1. Veronica C says:

    I suggest you look into couple’s counseling…

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