I was in the military and thought about staying in. Because we would need to be married for her to go with me, we talked about getting married. She asked me if it was ok if she could book a photograpgher just in case I stayed in the Air Force, and I said sure. I decided not to stay in and just finish my enlistment. So I thought that since I was not staying in we did not need to get married. I want everyone to know that I love her very much and that we have only been together for 18 months but, total time spent together is only 6 months. Anyway, I come back from Louisiana to find out that her and her mom have booked a reception hall, church, wedding date, put a guest list together, and told me where we are going on the honeymoon. The problem, is that I have never even proposed to her. She has no ring and I have been yelled at by her and her family about why she does not have a ring. I NEVER PROPOSED TO HER! I’m not ready to get married. What do I say so her family won’t hate me? Thanks.
For all the haters in here. She brought up the entire conversation for the wedding, NOT me. You don’t have to have a wedding date to reserve a photographer if the photographer is a family friend. She told me that she would not lose any money on the photographer. I said yes because I did not want to be mean. Once again it apears that my good nature has got my butt is a sling again. The only thing that I may have done wrong is to not say anything sooner. I let her mom get out of control. Oh, I forgot to mention that she was previously engaged two years ago and the wedding was called off. I never asked her why or for any details about it. To the person that said I left alot out of my story, they were correct. I left out stuff that would make her look even worse. I did not want to attack her to make me look right. She is 23 and I am 25 yrs old.