Should I wait for my wedding night to have sex?

June 24th, 2011

My girlfriend and I are 21 and 20, respectively, and we’ve been together for almost 6 years now. We have been sexually active for most of that time, but have never had vaginal sex. Should we continue to wait until we are married to have sex?

6 Responses to “Should I wait for my wedding night to have sex?”

  1. charlie says:

    If you’ve been together for 6 years and you guys have waited this long, hell, go all the way. It’ll be an accomplishment that you two can remember for the rest of your lives. It can’t be that much harder than abstaining for 6 years, and that night will be amazing and totally worth it for you guys. I’m happy to hear someone has restraint nowadays. Congratulations

  2. Michelle says:

    whatever you guys want to do have a real conv about it and make your choose its really up to you guys and what the real heart and soul wants.

  3. I..wish1989 says:

    There are pros and cons to both. I think that is very impressive that you two have waited that long. I have a lot of respect for people that can do that. I think it would be nice to wait because your wedding night will just be that much more special since you have already waited that long, what would hurt waiting a little bit longer? The only down fall is if the sex isn’t good between the two of you and then your married and then may struggle with the intimacy. Although, if you both are certin that you have that really special connection and you have waited that long, I dont think you have anything to worry about. I think ultimately it is best to wait.

  4. Suky Lo says:

    I have great respect for those who don’t have sex for six years. I have great respect too for those who can live in a cold cell on bread and water, who wear a hair shirt or who deny the flesh in any one of a dozen ways. I just wouldn’t do it myself.

  5. LM says:

    If that’s what you want.

  6. Poppet says:

    Wait? Wait for what? An invitation?! It’s not like you two are virgins because you aren’t. You’ve been sexually active for nearly 6 years. You said so yourself! Vaginal sex or not other forms of sex count as sex too.

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